I'm a relationship expert and I coach men and women who are frustrated in their marriage, especially adult children of divorce. As the oldest of 21 children whose father has married 6 times I've seen lots of ways to do marriage wrong, dealt with many of the issues, and want to support you in figuring out how to do your marriage right. I got married, divorced, and remarried. But before I got married again I made a conscious decision not to live the legacy created for me by my father. I started learning how to create a great marriage. I've trained in numerous marriage and relationship programs including PAIRS, 'Keeping Love Alive' and 'Divorce Busting', 'No Jerks' and 'Marriage Links', and 'Hot Monogamy.' I created and teach 'Healthy, Wealthy, and Hot Marriage' programs in churches and for First Things First of Gaston County, NC. I am co-author, with my bride, of 'Romantic Antics: Creative Ideas for Successful First Dates, Adventurous Saturday Nights, and Playful Long Weekends.' I've spoken to numerous groups about marriage and relationships including MOPS, Mothers and More, eWomen, and chambers of commerce. I am an ICB accredited Life and Relationship coach. I've been happily married for over 15 years and have 2 children.